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Go Ahead – Push My Buttons

push (one’s) buttons verb
•    Make one react, or react unfavorably; to aggravate; to show off another’s character faults; to taunt. She knows how to push all his buttons.

push_meUnfortunately, most “button pushers” get a bad rap.  They’re considered rude and inconsiderate. They are the difficult people in life.  Teachers send them to the principals office,  parents scream at them, and bus drivers make them walk. Many parents try to protect their kids from button pushers.

We see them differently. We see them as vehicles for change. They definitely challenge us to tap into where we are stuck. If we’re willing to go there, we find more freedom.  The more buttons we discover within ourselves and the more we learn how to notice them before we react in a way that does not serve us or the button pusher, the better we will be able to serve the world.

Constant comfort, pleasure, and ease won’t get you grounded and it certainly won’t get you elevated.  So how do you know a button has been pushed?  Usually your breath gets shallow. Your jaw tightens. Your eyes harden. Parts of your body contract.  Perhaps your belly gets agitated like a turbulent plane ride.

You  feel angry, hurt or withdrawn.  These patterns prevent us from knowing our highest self.  Remember, when a button gets pushed – you’ve just discovered another area for growth.  So instead of plotting your next comeback for when a button gets pushed, stop, and tune int o your breath.  Notice where you feel tight or contracted. Tap into the direct experience of the energy that informs those negative reactions and move from that awareness.

May we dare say honor the people who push your buttons. They will take you where you need to go.

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    Namaste

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    No pain, no remorse, no one intervening
    a choice I make without much thought or meaning~”

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    That celebrates greeting sisters and brothers?
    Can you show me HOW to express happiness
    with social and spiritual significance?”

    YES, my dear friend, I can show you a mudra~
    a gesture of sorts, for kings, friends and sudras.
    Place hands together from fingers to wrists~
    like a knife, cut through difference that may exist.

    This immediately gets you to the shared ground~
    of ALL people, of all cultures, of all sound.
    It’s a recognition, a united force~
    that honors equality of all from the Source.

    Close your eyes and tune into your own inner light;
    your divine spark that forever burns bright.
    That’s the key, my dear friend, you must see your OWN
    in order to recognize others’ light shown.

    BLEND your five fingers of action on the left~
    with five fingers of knowledge on the right~
    to achieve the symbol of perfection
    the union of opposites; interconnection.
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    your sun and your moon; your stop and your start.
    Marry together reason and emotion~
    unite thoughts and feelings, stillness and motion.

    Join positive and negative; hot and cold~
    theory with practice, silver with gold~
    Wisdom with Method, intellect with instinct~
    talent with genius, and feelings with think!

    Exhalation and inhalation, ,brain and heart~
    Align in harmony, right from the start!
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    untouched by the symbolic significance~

    of Namaste~

    Namaste

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